Since people seem to insist on having an opinion on something but then turning off comments my only way of responding is through a blog post....which really does suck monkey nuts....though since I'm sure AE doesn't actually expect comments on the Grumpy Toast blog period then I'm totally cool with the stance she took on the matter (though I'm not an advocate for turning off comments at all). I feel the need to defend myself due to the ''I haven't named names'' situation, lest everyone assume that it's me emailing AE....which it isn't.
Never once did I say that Vid was wrong to have feelings, however these high school reactions she has to peoples opinions she doesn't like is what has caused a lot of bust ups and disputes which are then made worse by friends of either side. And for the sake of the stupidity that is Sims 3 drama I felt it was time to say ''Hey this is fucken dumb, I've seen it happen to others and thought their MUST be something else behind the scenes that I didn't see....but then it happens to me, when all I did was reinforce someone elses opinion, and have my own, assuming that a very opinionated friend of mine would respect my opinion. Vid is 21 not 12 shes a big girl and I'm sure shes not THAT emotionally unstable that every time someone has an opinion she doesn't like that she has to flip out and take it into the dramatics. Not everyone is out to get her.
I have said my reaction was very hypocritical since I advocate personal problems being dealt with in private away from blogs...but in a way, this whole thing was a public matter from the beginning there was no ill will behind the scenes, at least not in my court.........but I own up to and accept that I was just as much in the wrong. I'm open to everyone having an opinion on a matter as long as it's expressed in a mature manner which is open to some discussion and debate.....or whats the fucken point in having one?
I honestly don't understand why anyone is still talking about this anyways, emailing behind the scenes or anything....it's done, LE made her peace as far as I know, I've said my bit and Vid has not made the effort to approach me she decided to attack me on comments on LE's blog which LE accidentally removed instead.....and that's fine, I honestly don't care about reconciliation, the only thing that's going to be different between Vid and I is that I stop commenting on her blog, it's really not a big deal.
If anyone is trying to ram a wedge between myself and others because of their own agenda then I'm gonna be pissed, this isn't fucking high school you don't need posse and backup don't be fucking pussies.
This is the last I'm saying on this matter, cause its too fucking stupid for further words, I'm far too busy IRL and with Sims projects to bother with this bullshit anymore.